![]() The joy we have is flimsy and minimal-mixed with unpredictable anxiety or pain. We do not feel contentment and stability. ![]() But in unhealthy emotional attachments, we are not at rest. In fact, it is the last stage of the grieving process. Work on AcceptanceĪcceptance can be so hard. This pattern may very well be a protective behavior you unconsciously engage in for reasons you are not aware of yet. What lurks beneath this pattern? Is it a love of the chase? Is there a belief that if you can win him over then you are ultimately worthy of love? Is it a distraction? No matter what the motivation, use this experience as a way to gain a deeper understanding of yourself. ![]() If this isn’t the first time that you have become emotionally attached to someone who is unavailable, it’s time to take a hard look at yourself. Whatever the negatives are, bring them into consciousness and actively think about them when you begin to idealize him.
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